It’s All in How You Look At It

There are various times of year when the work at home mom might feel overloaded. Holidays can be one of those times. There are extra things going on, extra responsibilities, extra motherhood stuff (like shopping), extra business tasks (year-end items), etc.

Those are great times of year to focus in on who you are. I am much happier when I have the self-perception that I am a homeschooling wife and mother….with a home-based business –— rather than the self-image of being a self-employed business woman who works from home while trying to balance motherhood, homeschooling and all the rest (which is quite a lot this time of year!). Keeping the perspective that reflects my core values makes a big difference in maintaining my sanity level ;-) .

Is Working at Home Stimulating Enough?

I’ll bet there are a lot of moms in the corporate world who like the challenge of their professional setting. And the interaction with other stimulating people. But I bet some of those moms wish they could work at home. For many, many reasons. And yet…there are probably many questions running through the minds of those hard working moms as they consider the possibility. Without the challenge and stimulation of the workplace, one of those questions, simply put, might be: would I go nuts being at home all the time?

Maybe not the most academic of the many questions to consider, but a valid one nonetheless. Only the mom in question can answer that for herself, but here are some personal thoughts that might be helpful to her (or you!).

Having a home-based business means melding various activity fronts within a smaller area. You’re doing mothering, homemaking, and business all from home (plus lots of other stuff most likely). My own experience is that this actually can provide even more stimulation and invigorating activity on all those fronts. They can be balanced more creatively, juxtaposed more easily, and sometimes combined with greater originality. Examples: supper is in the oven as I write this, we have family “mailing parties” for some snail mail customer contact in my business, my teens give me some great internet business advice, and I can sneak in a customer follow-up call right after answering that ever-present question, “can I have something to eat?”. You’re probably getting the picture. It’s sort of a way of life, and allows me to get more done in all three of those areas (mothering, homemaking and business) than I think would be possible if I weren’t working at home.

Now, having a work at home situation that does include some type of contact with other people does help. I’m on the phone almost every day in some business-related capacity. And definitely communicating via computer every single business day. As you evaluate home-based business options, you may want to consider something that offers that. Unless of course, you’re a loner by nature and the social element of the corporate life is your least favorite part to begin with. If that’s the case, perhaps you won’t miss it by making the transition to at-home work.

And it may be that the work at home mom needs to pay particular attention to her non-work social/emotional/spiritual/physical needs that take her outside the home if that is what she likes. But most work at home moms I know really like being at home, and being at home a lot. If you’ve never had the luxury of trying it, it may not seem appealing at first. But I think it will grow on you ;-) .

Getting Back to Working at Home

I had a wonderful break from my home-based business over the Thanksgiving holiday. That was over a week ago. And it has taken me this long to fully re-engage in my routine as a work at home mom. I think that is the hardest part, for me, in this style of career choice.

I am very comfortable with a routine. And when that routine changes, it take some adjusting. Even when the “new” pattern is restful and relaxing, it can actually take some discipline to transition into it! And once it’s time to return to the “original” pattern that demands more from me, I seem to have this natural resistance. No matter how much I adore the “original” pattern, it takes me time to pick up speed and get into it. This is one of the reasons I don’t indulge in those slower-paced breaks very often!

Maybe this is not unique to working at home. Maybe it’s that way for everybody? Or maybe it’s not a function of where one works, but rather one’s work personality :-) .

Sharing the Blessing

If you’re a “helper” personality like I am, it is the best feeling in the world to share something that has blessed your life. That’s one of the reasons I love the business model I work with. Having my own home-based business, being a work at home mom, has blessed my life and that of my family in innumerable ways, and I get to offer that same opportunity to others…maybe even to you!

I went into public interest law because I wanted to help others. I’m grateful I did not have to leave that goal behind when I transitioned into my home-based business.

Thanks-Giving to be a Work At Home Mom

As we approach this wonderful holiday that reminds us to give thanks, I’m inspired to reflect on some of the reasons I am thankful to be a work at home mom:

Child #1
Child #2
Child #3
Child #4

Well, that’s sort of self-evident. Go a little deeper, and I can find lots of reasons, big and small, to give thanks for the opportunity to be a work at home mom. Here are five that come to mind right away:

1. I can control my work environment in a way unavailable to me in the corporate world….I’m surrounded by the tools and touches that speak to me (since I’m the one who picked them out!)

2. I can sleep in if I want to…and not be “late” for work.

3. Work stuff that doesn’t demand dedicated time (and attention), doesn’t have to consume as much precious time when I can multi-task with various household tasks; e.g., start supper and then finish up some business e-mails OR tackling desktop projects while waiting for kids at activities.

4. There is more family time available, since I don’t have any commute, I can sneak household chores into the day, and I’m just around more.

5. I like being at home….always have.

OK, all work at home moms. What is your top reason for being thankful to be a work at home mom?

Tell Me Why

Who might want to consider being a work at home mom?

- moms who get jobs at their children’s schools in order to be on the kids’ schedule, but don’t find the work especially fulfilling

- moms with a professional degree who want a career AND a premium family life

- moms who want to homeschool their children and contribute to the family income

- moms who want to model entrepreneurship for their children, or just have it in their blood

- moms who find a home based business that enables them to make the world a better place

- moms who want to share the every-day miracles of life with their kids whenever the kids are home

We are a diverse, talented group (this list is just for starters)! What’s your reason for being or wanting to be a work at home mom?

Can I Have a Legitimate Work at Home Mom Business Without Investing Large Sums?

If you’re a mom who wants to work at home (whether you’re leaving corporate America or simply don’t want to go there), you probably have all kind of questions as you consider this for yourself. It is my intention and hope to help answer some of these questions for you on this blog.

There are often questions of legitimacy about various work at home options, sometimes coupled with the issue of money. I mean, if you spend tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars for a franchise license, you know it’s legitimate, right? Having to invest a large sum of money seems to give an undertaking credibility. And if you want to work at home producing and/or selling something clever you create, like (…well, I’m not a clever creator so I can’t even name anything, but think crafts or sewing :-) ) you would need to invest in a beginning inventory at the least (and maybe production equipment and more). But is it necessary to have that kind of financial positioning to legitimately branch out on one’s own?

No, of course not. It depends on the type of at-home work you’re interested in, naturally. But there are many legitimate work at home business opportunities that do not require a lot of start-up capital. If you begin a home business offering a particular skill or talent that you have (pet sitting, website development, home organization, party planning or any other of an almost endless list of possibilities), you may have minimal start-up costs, like advertising, a basic record keeping system and maybe a computer and/or website. But those costs are not likely to be high.

The same holds true for many internet marketing work at home options, like affiliate marketing, where you advertise the products or services of one or more companies (say, on a website you own on a related topic) and then receive a commission on sales from your advertising. In researching other work at home mom blogs recently, I have seen many affiliate marketing home businesses in action.

Another home-based business for the work at home mom that is certainly legitimate and does not require a great deal of start-up capital is in the arena of network marketing, an industry with the upside of franchise operations (business processes and infrastructure that are already in place) coupled with the flexibility of being a self-directed entrepreneur and the advantage of being positioned to capitalize on the marketing potential of the internet.

OK, I’m probably a little biased. This is where I have happily landed as a work at home mom. And to get comfortable here, I actually had to overcome some pretty significant prejudice against the legitimacy of this type of home-based business. But I did my due diligence, broadened by horizons a little bit, and am better for it in many ways (and all without having to invest a large sum of money to have a successful business!).

You too can certainly have a legitimate home-based business as a work at home mom without investing a great deal of start-up capital. So don’t let the money issue deter you!

Recommitted to Helping Moms Work At Home

I had a painful reminder last week of why I am so committed to helping moms work from home. I contacted a friend I hadn’t talked to for a while and asked her how things were going. In short, her reply was: not very well. She has a four month old baby and two other children under the age of six, and she works full time (at a good job she really enjoys). Her husband is stretched thin, she’s stretched thinner, and it is just rough.

I think to myself what a difference it might make for her and her beautiful family if she was working from home. Especially if she had begun developing a home-based business before reaching this height of busy-ness. And even more so if it was a business that offered residual income (so that work she had done in the past would continue to reward her).

Yes, there is still juggling involved for a work at home mom with young children. Yes, the activity level can get kind of intense at times. But I am convinced it can be more family-friendly than working outside the home.

And so I have a new wave of courage to reach out (believe it or not, I can be timid :-) ) and am re-inspired to spread the word: Moms, you can make the contribution to the family income that is needed in so many cases by working at home!

The Work At Home Mom in the Big Time

I have to admit that there were times in my corporate life when I did not fully appreciate the status of a work at home mom. She didn’t seem like a “real” business woman to me. How narrow minded I was!

Not only have I grown comfortable with my own skin as a home-based business owner work at home mom, but I happen to have “The Perfect Business” according to Dr. Paul Zane Pilzer:

Pretty good credentials, I’d say. The entrepreneurial work at home mom can definitely be in the big time, business structure and location notwithstanding.

For Myself, But Not By Myself

I come from a family of entrepreneurial spirits, and yet I envisioned a career in the corporate world as I received my degrees. That corporate involvement was short-lived, as it turns out, and I gladly embraced being at home with my children.

This change of life course gave ready rein to the entrepreneurial blood in my veins. And now I see it is the best way for me. No wonder the term “home-based entrepreneurial mom” coined by my friend in response to my plea for help in defining what I “do” seems so apt. Being in business for myself is a good fit for me.

But so, also, is not being in business by myself. No, I don’t mean a business partner. I mean the backing of a multi-million dollar infrastructure headed by the best business man I’ve known. My business model offers this, and I am certainly grateful. Perhaps my initial leanings toward the corporate life are reflected in the appeal of this business model to me.

I’m in business for myself, but not by myself, and it is a great place to be.